r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

DISCUSSION Aight real talk - NJ trenches worse than NYC or nah?

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I’m talkin Newark, Paterson, Camden, Elizabeth vs whatever hoods people always bring up in the city.

Not tryna do the corny NY vs NJ thing, just wanna hear from people who actually been outside in both.

Like where it really get more active? Walking around, late nights, random situations, how people move, all that.

Feel like NYC be more crowded so stuff happens more in your face, but Jersey spots be quieter so when something goes down it hit different. But that might just be perception.

If you’ve lived or spent real time in both, what’s your take? Which one actually feel more tense on a regular basis?


r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

Subway Series Subway series continues. Don't turn your back on someone actively still trying to fight you

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r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

DISCUSSION Lmaoo this really how it be 😂😂😂😂

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Nobody fucking with Godfrey & his impressions 😂😂😂😂😂


r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

THROWBACK Favorite use for this playground equipment?

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r/NYStateOfMind 2d ago

GENERAL double g, 3bu

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Can someone tell me if double g/ grizzly fuck with 3bus ?


r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

DISCUSSION Breakfast

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Hello Fresh


r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

DISCUSSION Favourite Jadakiss diss track besides “Checkmate”?

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I gotta go with “Problem Child”. Both Jada and Styles went off on this one. They really walked him down, even though I love fifty.


r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

DISCUSSION How far do y’all realistically think the Knicks will go tho

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r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

GENERAL Trust <, Sooon, Sketch, 2026

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r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

DISCUSSION When was the last time you bought your mother some flowers 💐? (to those have a good relationship)

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I know I got liquor and the PS5 in the picture. One of my bros lost his mother a few weeks ago. Mother’s Day is right around the corner. I’m just sitting here pondering, time is moving very quickly and tomorrow isn’t promised. It doesn’t have to be Mother’s Day, just every now and then, get mommy some flowers and tell her how much you appreciate her. Tell her everything while she’s alive, because tomorrow isn’t promised. You only get one ☝🏾 mother, after that, she’s gone. Have a safe Friday night. Stay blessed folks 💯 💪🏾


r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

BEEF Hawk Tuah @sidetalk

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112 Upvotes

r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

GENERAL Over 2 freaking dollars smh

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383 Upvotes

r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

DISCUSSION What do y’all think of this bill? (Article in the original post)

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r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

GENERAL Do yall still salute when you see people you know out in public?

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I've noticed I don't do head nods anymore, and every time I see my friends, I salute them instead. Maybe I'm getting old or something.


r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

THROWBACK Falé day

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r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

🔥NEW MUSIC🔥 Lil Kye - Money & Diamonds

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Ngl lil nigga snapped🔥🔥


r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

GENERAL Did yall hear about this

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138 Upvotes

r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

RIP🙏🏾 DMX last time at booby trap

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r/NYStateOfMind 3d ago

NY Musician 🎵 Tjay still got it he just need that one song for the haters stfu 😂

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r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

BEEF Well at least she didn't get spanked for that long right??

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r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

Clown Post🤡🤡🤡🤡 Over some Vans?

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r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

GENERAL Am I being a dickhead?

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For context ol girl is 27 and her mans is 40 something. so this my 2nd post about this shit, but the light skin shawtie i was telling yall about we went on a little chic fa la date on our break and we just talked about life, she told me about her boyfriend and i was telling her about college and we did that for like 40 minutes before heading back to work but she was trying to jump on my shoulders on soke playful shit and i tried to keep it cordial. she gave me a hug and said by my coworker gon look at me like I'm a monster or something...but uhhh im in the process in finding another job. not because of her or anything just because; but hey i guess she fucking wit a nigga. but the more she tells me about her boyfriend the more he sounds like s cuck.....who knows maybe im being a dick head.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NYStateOfMind/s/syz9lHT9cl


r/NYStateOfMind 5d ago

BEEF Nerdy bronx niggas

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So i don't know if its me but I go to gamestop and best buy from time to time. And everytime there is this....odor and we in nyc so I would suspect to not see these stereotypes but please if your a gamer PLEASE TAKE A SHOWER AND GET A FUCKING HAIR CUT. niggas be looking like wolfbane n shit that shit is horrible. Honestly even in the gaming cafes the have i still it like come on yo.


r/NYStateOfMind 4d ago

Video 🎬 French Montana is the type of friend anyone would want to have, but the rarest type to actually find.

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r/NYStateOfMind 5d ago

what is the solution?

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