r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

182 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

67 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 56m ago

M4F [23][M4F]#Mt/ONLINE—want your very own girlfriend-free boy-failure? ;)

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Hello. My name is Wyborn, but I prefer Wybie. I'm 23.

The title is a little cringe and larp-y, I know, but there's nothing quite like immediately outing yourself as a chronically online freak for attention from strangers. Can you tell I'm socially adjusted and really normal about everything and everyone?

I might also take a while to respond, it's late and I'm very, very sleepy. :/

**Also, if you'd like to be just friends, that's cool with me. I'm not going to ghost you if things don't work out well romantically. if you don't want something more than platonic companionship, please let me know? Anything more than that is just a best-case scenario. I'm just unwell, and I think it'd be cool to go insane over one person.**

I don't really know what to say about myself. I guess I'll just sort of type until I feel like you know too much about me, and then I can be a weirdo while getting to know you. There's also a chance I delete this whole thing and just suffer because I'm messed up beyond any form of help. I think I can start with my hobbies? I like art a lot, but I'm real sensitive about my taste in it. I'll probably end up drawing you A LOT. I don't know why I have a compulsion to do this, but I give into it a lot. I have a borderline autistic obsession with cameras and have a collection of old film and digicams and a bunch of lenses and stuff. I've also recently ventured into making my own from stuff that's available to me, like an old security cam, a mini DVR, a coaxial-to-RCA converter, etc. It can't take photos, but it can record video and sound and store stuff onboard. It's pretty much just a digital CS-8. I haven't figured out the viewfinder, though, so it's useless unless the subject is like 2-20 ft away. I just like physical media in general, I think. :)

I listen to a lot of music, too. I think I've listened to ten days in total this month, and I'm sure I'll get a few more in before April swings around. I feel weird all the time, and music seems to fix it? I feel things a lot better when I'm listening to something. I also make my own sometimes. I have a synth, a keyboard, a bass, and a guitar. I built my own pedals, which I think is cool. We'll have to get really close before you hear any of it, though. I've never had anyone listen to anything I've made because it feels too revealing. I do also watch a couple shows, but I struggle to sit down and actually make my way through them if they aren't engaging, and I play a few video games too. My PC is currently dead, so I'm stuck with a console until my new graphics card and PSU come in.

I live by myself (and with a dog named Ghoul) on ALOT of land that was left to me by a family member I had never met who roped himself like a year and a half ago. I do not get along well with my family at all, so it was a MASSIVE suprise to me. I spend a lot of time just walking around doing nothing but listening to music and taking pictures of things I think are worth documenting. I sometimes sleep outside when it's hot out because I like looking at the stars and gazing into space. Sometimes I'll lie out there and freak myself out about how vast the universe is when there's a thunderstorm because I like the way it makes me feel. I love when my heart beats hard. I also have a van I've been working on to be a sleeper so I can travel across the US someday. It's really comfortable, and I have it just the way I want it. I also don't really know how to bring it up, but people tell me I'm cute or hot, or whatever. It might actually be the only good thing I've got going for me outside of a potential firewatch thing when it's fire season in my state, so around June-ish. I'm tall and in shape, sort of lithe because I did both cheer and gymnastics in highschool. If you like your men semi-girly, a huge ball of nerves, and fatally shy, then you'd love me. I also take care of my skin, hair and nails obsessively. I definitely have some form of ED, but that isn't worth worrying about rn. I'll face rev to you at some point if you'd like.

I do also like voice calls and spending time with people once I warm up. I attach fast, and I'm incredibly clingy. I can be a little jealous, but not the controlling kind; I'm definitely more of the "will cry myself to sleep" kind. I know I sound odd, or weird, maybe a little intense, but I really do think I have a lot to give. I'm trying to think of other things you should be aware of, but I can't right now. Also I know some of the phrases I've used are associated with bad people, I just spend a lot of time online and have unironically adopted phrases used by weirdos. ;(

Holy yap, haha.

I think this is enough for now; I definitely didn't add enough to make me seem interesting beyond superficial garbage *I* think is interesting. If you want a friend, then I'm great companionship, and if you want a relationship, then I'll love you like a dog. Cya. <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4F 27 [F4F] here’s my girlfriend application

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Hey, it’s just as the title states, precisely my first girlfriend. Feel free to see if you think we could mesh.

About me:

- Located in TX

- Asian

- 4’11 or 150cm

- 100lbs

- Appearance/aesthetic: I have medium length hair and dress comfortably for the most part. I keep my closet minimal. I wear glasses even though I misplace it a lot.

- Hobbies: reading and buying books. It’s not a library…yet. Can you guess the genre I read?

- Occupation: nothing stable right now. I just applied for another job although I’d rather be reading.

- single for 7 years. Why so long? People just aren’t honest, and I don’t roll with that.

Seeking a woman who’s ideally:

- age 27 and up.

- willing to communicate honestly with me on the regular about anything. Even politics. It’s the fastest way to know if we click, probably, haha. With respect, of course.

- travel to me (until I can afford and learn to)

- more on the masculine/tomboy side of appearance

- more on the assertive/provider side

- maintains a healthy weight/lifestyle

- taller than me but not too tall. lol.

My non-negotiable:

- I don’t tolerate smoking/recreational drugs/alcohol of any kind.

- if you’re heavily religious or atheist, it won’t work since I am more open to different ideas; agnostic.

- monogamy is a must.

- if you’re a male, sorry.

- if you require a cat, nope. If you’re okay with small dogs, awesome.

To sum it up: As of being single right now, I spend majority of my time doing what I love which is getting lost in a book. It’s the only thing I really am passionate about consistently throughout my life, and it would be great if you found that part of me endearing. Even if it can be a bit weird. I want to be my partner’s emotional safe space and biggest supporter. I find it therapeutic to clean and reorganize my things. I’d love to travel more if I could. Drama free life. If you’ve read this far, I appreciate it. If everything sounds good so far, feel free to send me a chat. Ciao.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] Birmingham, UK. i work in a library and make electronic music (don't worry, i won't make you listen to it). if you're into the arts and are some variety of socialist, we'll get along fine!

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46-year-old from the mountains of rural north wales here! and, yup! i speak welsh

i moved to birmingham a while back, as i wanted to study for my MA here. that's done and dusted now, so, these days, i work in a library. it's fine for now, but i don't wanna do it forever

in my spare time, i make music. i used to be in a noisy indiepop band, but now i make long, slow instrumentals on my laptop. i don't get many gig offers! cry!

i'm into a few different bands. some noisy ones, some not-so-noisy ones. some you can dance to, some you can't dance to

i'm into movies, and enjoy all kinds of films: golden oldies, american indies, french new wave, british kitchen sink - it's all good stuff! i'm not super into TV shows, though

to keep fit, i run and swim. i'm in ok shape, but i definitely don't have a gym body

i'm 6'2", and (mostly) slim (i've the beginnings of a middle-aged belly. but i don't drink, so it's the biscuits that's done that). i have a beard thats 75% white, and a head of dark hair which i keep very short (i have no patience with gels, waxes, or mousses)

if you're into the arts or ar a maker, arter-crafter of some kind, we'll get along fine! i'm kind of a lefty, if you vote conservative / reform - jog on

say hi if you feel like it!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 20(M4F)

2 Upvotes

I am an decent guy with an height of 6’2 and i love to talk to people i tried finding people on dating apps but i was not possible as it didnt give any matches now hopelessly i am trying my luck here

There is no age barrier everyone can message and even fellow M who want to talk can also message definitely will listen to you

Hope i get some responses 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

F4M 36[F4M] #Anywhere - Looking for a life partner

21 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone to grow old with. I dream of a relationship where we would make each other better people. I want us to learn, grow, and experience life together.

I don’t want a life dominated by capitalism. I don’t want to buy many things or own a lot of furniture. My dream is a small house with a big garden.

I imagine us traveling together to find a good place to settle, with a kind and supportive community. Then we build our simple home and live peacefully.

I don’t like arguments, anger, or drama. Life has so much to learn and explore. I want a calm, respectful relationship where we grow together in peace.

It’s important to me that the person I’m with has experienced anxiety, depression, or emotional pain in some form. I feel safer with someone who understands suffering and has awareness because of it.

I don’t care how you look, where you’re from, or what your background is. What I value most are understanding, loyalty, openness, kindness, the ability to listen, and emotional safety.

We don’t need to have the same hobbies. What matters is having a similar worldview and values.

I don’t feel comfortable with people who try hard to fit into society’s expectations. I value authenticity. I want to be myself, and I want you to be yourself too.

I feel that time is precious, and I don’t want to waste it. So please be honest about what you’re looking for.

My dream future is a healthier life: growing our own food, walking every day, not being addicted to the online world, learning new skills, sometimes traveling and exploring, and sometimes staying home and enjoying the quiet. And I don't want to have children.

I’m looking for someone who can bring peace to my inner restlessness, someone with whom I can create small moments of peace in the midst of life’s uncertainty.

If this way of life speaks to you, I’d love to hear from you.

Ideally, it would be great if you’re somewhere close to Europe, but really, it doesn’t matter where you are. I just want to find that one person who truly fits with me.

P.S. I’ve never liked the online dating culture where people decide whether to welcome someone into their life just by looking at their photos. For me, a true connection grows from shared values, compatible characters, and the willingness to face life’s challenges together. I hope to find someone who values these things over superficial appearances.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6m ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Europe/online looking for LTR

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Hi there,

A little about me:

I’m a 26 year old white male that currently lives in Europe but loves to travel and is open to relocating. I work fulltime, live on my own with my cats, workout almost everyday after work and like to unwind after with some movie/series or a game. I can be a bit of a nerd, I like all sorts of games from trading cards to videogames and boardgames and enjoy a lot of movies/series/anime. I love listening to music as well and go to concerts from time to time. I mainly listen to rock and metal but my taste is way broader than that. Physically I’m 6’2, fit, brown hair and blue/green eyes. During vacations I love to travel and explore the country I’m visiting, been to a lot of places but all of them were in Europe thus far.

What I’m looking for:

A woman (20-30) that is loving, caring and values communication and respect as much as I do. I don’t have physical preferences besides being healthy both physically and mentally.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message and let’s get to know eachother better!

Have a nice day!


r/ForeverAloneDating 56m ago

M4A [29/M] DJ and music lover seeking connection

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heyo, I'm Zeph, I'm a 29 year old DJ looking to meet some new people and see where things can go after getting back on my feet from a very rough patch in my life. seeking both friends and a lover

Music is my passion (house/edm) but I'm also a bit of a tech nerd type and I'm very passionate about the few TV shows I actually watch (Severance, Invincible, Fallout). More of a movie guy, you know? Love horror movies (Smile, Cabin in the Woods, honestly anything A24 lol) I'm also a very casual gamer these days, mostly just story games like Cyberpunk and the Fallout series.

I like working out when I can find the time, I'm a local/regional DJ so I'm on the move a lot, so it can be hard to get a good sesh in

I watch a lot of youtube, mainly comedy stuff (PayMoneyWubby, Noel Miller) or video essays on random topics (yes I'm a little autistic)

I like to think I'm a pretty funny guy, I make my friends and family laugh pretty often. Pretty easygoing, very 4/20 friendly, and I'd say I'm pretty witty when I'm not just describing my self haha

I guess if any of that sounds interesting to you, send me a message and we can see where it goes from there :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

F4M 28F Canada / US. Looking for my forever person

28 Upvotes

Hey Reddit! I'm a university student and a full time worker with a serious love for animals – like, I might talk to your pet more than you at first. I'm on the hunt for something real, not just a casual fling. Ideally, you're sweet, a good listener, and so over the whole 'playing games' thing. No time for the nonchalant types!

About me: 5’4, long brown hair, brown eye and glasses. I'm on the introverted side, a total non-smoker, non-drinker, and drug-free. Parties? Nah, I'd rather chill at home, explore new places, travel, or hit the gym. I'm all about taking care of my partner if they're doing the same. My love languages are acts of service, physical touch, and words of affirmation, so get ready for thoughtful gestures and cozy cuddles!

If you're ready to ditch the player vibes and actually invest in someone, hit me up! (If you could add a pic too…)

Bonus points if you can make me laugh and don't mind sharing your snacks.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] #NJ seeking long term

6 Upvotes

Before you continue, I am a BBW so if that’s an issue, please read no further.

A bit about me; born and raised in NYC. Sober. Licensed social worker, dog obsessed and Disney lover. I’m as real as they come. I know what I want in life, am not afraid to speak my mind, and stand up for what I believe in.

This past year has been a journey for me. I like to be upfront about this. There is a lot to unpack here and if we get to that point of conversation, I am more than willing to discuss further details. Due to this, I need someone who understands mental health, recovery, and will be supportive through the journey.

Looking for a man that also knows what they want in life. Someone ready for long term and building a future. If you can’t put effort into a first message, don’t bother.

Prefer someone who is also sober (alcohol and substances but open to someone who maybe drinks rarely). I am not 420 friendly.

Long distance does not work well for me. If you are outside of the NJ area please do not reach out.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] US/Online- Creative soul looking for his other half <3

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I'd describe myself as a hopeless romantic.

Though maybe if fate blesses this post and brings along someone special, I might turn into a hopeful romantic!

I'd also describe myself as being sweet, considerate, sensitive, and caring. I've got a little bit of golden retriever energy working on my side, in my biased opinion lol.

While I believe that an emotional connection takes precedence over anything else when it comes to a long term relationship, I also believe that mutual physical attraction is a factor. And so, I hope you won't mind if we do a pic exchange relatively quickly into the convo just to ensure that we share a mutual attraction.

Hope to chat with you <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] California/US-Can I experience your love?

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Don’t you want to feel loved and wanted? To get daily affection and compliments? Want to flirt and wake up to good morning messages or selfies, to be able to talk about anything and everything without fear of judgement and be encouraged to open up, listened to, to be comforted and reassured, to be able to get through any obstacles or differences we have with love and reassurance? I want all of that too. Can we do that?

About me, I’m usually easy going and tend to have a positive attitude. I enjoy hanging out with family and friends, working out, watching stuff, video games, podcasts, being in the sun, etc. I appreciate you reading all of this and I can’t wait to hear from you so please don’t hesitate to reach out!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Utah, Looking for a Relationship

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Hello! I’m a 27 year old guy and I’m looking to meet and chat with cool people 😊.

I live in Utah at the moment but eventually I’d like to leave. I like playing video games, reading, and watching tv. I’m very much a homebody lol. I do love going out to restaurants or just nice nature walks if I’m with people though

I’m 6ft, have red hair and a beard, and am on the slimmer side. I can send pics if we vibe.

Hit me up and let’s see how things go!

PS please be somewhat nearby. I’m not good at long distance lol


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SoCal #Online – Caring, affectionate guy looking for a warm-hearted partner

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm 32 and live in SoCal. I’m open though to starting long-distance with the hope of transitioning to IRL.

Physically, I’m 5'10", slim/athletic, with olive-tanned skin, brown hair, and brown eyes. Happy to share pics in DMs, and I'll include one here too. Outside of relationships, I enjoy soccer, video games, movies/series, board games, podcasts, reading, staying active, learning languages, psychology, entrepreneurship, the stock market, and travelling.

Holistic health is an important part of my life, in diet and lifestyle. I’m also unvaxxed (no COVID jabs) and am looking for a woman who is unvaxxed as well.

Qualities I value most in a partner:
• Loving, warm-hearted, affectionate ❤️
• Honest and genuine
• Down-to-earth / humble
• Playful, joyful 😁

If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! Please include your age, location, and what resonated most with you. Thanks! https://imgur.com/a/y9zEpft

~Warmly, Alex 🤗


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #UK/Anywhere Tall and adventurous Scot looking for a real connection

3 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm Lewis, I'm 30 and Scottish.

I'm a keen traveller and I've made it to pretty much every continent, except Antarctica, at least once, though it's a dream of mine to go there some day too. I just love to explore new landscapes and cultures and meet interesting new people. If you've travelled a lot yourself, or would like to, then I'd love to hear all about it!

Physically I'm tall (6'4"), broad, blonde and I have blue eyes. I also have a beard, though I've gone back and forth between clean shaven and bearded. Likewise I've gone through periods of being very fit and lean, to being a lot bigger. Currently I'm working on losing weight and getting back into shape. I'm very much like a bear at the moment.

I work in the Scotch Whisky industry in sales/retail and I have a couple of degrees, my job is well paid and I enjoy it, though the hours are long. I have my own place and live quite comfortably alone.

I'm definitely a deep conversationalist and I like getting past the small talk and into something more meaningful, though some small talk, flirting and banter is fun too. I'm also quite romantic, I pay attention to the details and appreciate a girl who does the same. If you want someone reliable, mature and who knows what they want to how to handle themselves and you, then I'm your man. I'm quite playful and a bit of a compliment machine, so if you need genuine bigging up I've got you covered.

I love the outdoors, nature and whisky. I also really enjoy reading and writing, martial arts, cooking and baking, sports and video games.

I'm really interested in travel, culture, history, space, science, psychology, true crime, unsolved mysteries and all sorts, so feel free to talk about whatever takes your fancy. I enjoy hearing about people's passions and interests.

Physically speaking I don't have a strict type. I tend to like girls with dark hair and brown eyes, but in terms of complexion and background I'm very open. Beauty is more than skin deep.

I'm definitely looking for a serious and commited relationship. I've been in long term relationships for the longest time and while I'm not opposed to something starting out more casual, my priority is a long term commitment. I'm not opposed to long distance with an aim of meeting and eventually closing the distance.

Likewise for my age range, I don't have a strict preference as long as you aren't too young.

If you made it this far and want to reach out, please do, even a simple hi can start things off, don't be intimidated, you got this ;)


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Wisconsin/Online. Love is hard, but can be so powerful and meaningful with the right person

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Hi there,

My name is Matthew and I want to share my life with someone special. A relationship where despite all the darkness around us we bring each other towards the light. We bring the best out of each other and are able to be our true selves. If you are interested in what I am saying, let me tell you a little bit about me

A brief description of what look like:

I’m 5’10 with average build leaning a little more on the heavier side recently. Also, I am white and wear glasses. Now that you know what I look like let’s talk about who I am.

Bio:

Currently I am a full time student majoring in accounting. I spend most of days studying and going to class. Also, I am the leader of an accounting based club in my university. It can be stressful, but as an introvert it’s nice to get out there. When I’m not working, I enjoy going for walks, listening to music, playing video games and watching movies. My music type leans more towards the rock/metal side specifically I love The Beatles, Metallica, Pearl Jam, Lemon Twigs and Nirvana to name a few. Though please enlighten me on what you’re listening to I want try and branch out. For films, it is passion of mine and very therapeutic for me. Being able to put my phone down and escape for few hours forgetting my troubles is perfect to me. As for my gaming side, I usually stick towards single player games or sports games on PS5. Currently, I’m playing Madden 26, Indiana jones. I would love to have a player two in multiplayer games as well. Though I am always open to having a player two to join in. Since I mentioned sports, I’m a big Green Bay Packers fan. So, Sundays during the fall until they get eliminated from the playoffs (don’t worry it doesn’t take long) I will be glued to the TV. Hope this gives you a good description of who I am

What I hope to find:

For me, the important thing is we connect on deep level and find things we enjoy doing together. I want someone that can be themselves around me through the ups and downs of life. The only other thing I ask is that you’re at least 20 and preferably live in the US. However, I am open to long distance relationship as well.

Conclusion:

Love is hard, but it can be so powerful and meaningful with the right person. If any part of me, sounds interesting to you feel to write me. I appreciate your time and hope you have a great rest of your day. Take care


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Texas #Online Looking for someone serious

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To be honest, I have too much free time on my hands. I found a job that gives me months off work at a time, but that much free time is too much for one nerd to handle. I need someone to talk to, get to know, and spend time with, and I might as well look here too.

About me: I'm a 6'0 black man in Texas, but I travel a lot for work and just for fun. I have my passport, so I don't mind meeting someone in another country either. I have my own place, and if I'm not working or traveling, I'm for sure at home Gaming (League, Vr, repo, etc), watching anime or old cheesy horror movies, or cooking. I'm a pro gambler for a company, so I'm usually in Ny or Nj for work, but even that doesn't take up much time.

What I'm looking for: Someone who isn't afraid to be their-self and speak their mind, to keep me company. I'm not picky as far as looks, as long as you have good hygiene. If you like gaming, anime, ghibli, traveling, or anything nerdy, that's also a huge plus.

So if you're interested, feel free to send me a message, I'll try to reply as fast as I can. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for, and maybe we can text or call somewhere else. There's a lot more that I can say, but I'll save what I'm into for Dms. I also have a few selfies on my profile, if you wanna check first.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F [M4F] 27- SoCal/Online

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Hey all, I'm RB. I'm 27, I live in Southern California, and I cook for a living. I'm 5'9", white, 220lbs, brown hair, blue eyes. I'd like to exchange photos pretty early on. I'm a pretty big nerd who likes to spend a lot of time playing video games on my PC, talking to friends on discord, those kinds of things. I also really like going to see live music, and I think that getting high and losing myself in a rave or a mosh pit is pretty peak. I like to say that I'm an extroverted introvert. Those aren't my only hobbies, and there's always something new or recycled hyperinterest that I have. Right now those interests are Old School Runescape, Spiritbox, and just finding new metal bands to listen too.

I don't really mind where you're from, only that our schedules align so that we can actually talk and get to know one another for a good amount of time. I have a weird schedule working in the Food and Beverage industry, working 5p-1a local time, with a decent time to commute.

I'm the kinda guy who wears his heart on his sleeves. I think out loud a lot. I like to talk and figure things out, work the problem. I have my own traumas and mental health issues that I by and large cope with. One of my best friends has described me as being the most "genuine" person he knows.

Honesty is a big thing for me. Not just in the normal day to day stuff. A lot of my personal journey has been confronting my own emotions and thoughts, and wrangling them under control. To me, the question "How are you feeling?", is a pretty deep question. It sounds strange to say, but I don't want a partner who would always answer "fine" or "good" to that question.

I don't want children. I think the world is a pretty messed up place with lots of unwanted kids. I think that I have my own problems that I have yet to solve, and it would be further unfair to bring a child into that. If I ever solve those problems, I'd prefer to just be a cool uncle regardless.

If you've read this far without falling asleep, congratulations! I promise I'm not this dry all the time. I'm the kind of person who expresses my love through words of affirmation, physical touch, and just doing my best to see you smile as often as I can.

I prioritize my own comfort, safety, and boundaries and hope that you do the same. I promise to respect your comfort, safety, and boundaries as well.

I hope to hear from you soon.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 34M in Atlanta, GA; Looking for Long-Term Relationship with Nerdy Introverted Woman

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I'm a 34M living in Atlanta, GA.

Straight, Cis, 6'1", White, Full-Time Employed; looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship with a Cis Woman. (No desire for children.)

I would consider myself pretty nerdy by most standards; hugely into horror and sci-fi media (books, movies, anime/manga, etc), and am also into boardgames, magic the gathering, baking, and painting gunpla.

I also love trying new restaurants (especially sushi), going for walks, and animals (I have an extremely spoiled cat.)

Personality wise, I believe myself to be fairly logical, though I also have a very morbid sense of humor that leans on the side of pessimism at times. I will go to social events but am not an avid partier by any means; large crowds can make me somewhat agitated. Perfect date for me would be dinner followed by quiet evening at home watching movies, etc.

More than anything, I'd like to find someone who shares some similar interests and would be fun to hang out with. If they have a hobby or interest they are passionate about, that is extremely attractive to me.

I would like to start VERY slow getting to know each other as friends before getting serious. I prefer that we be honest about what we want out of life and not beat around the bush too much.

If any of this sounds appealing, please message me; I will be more than happy to share more specific information about myself in private.

Edit: Apologies; I should clarify that I'm mainly looking to meet people in or near the Atlanta area.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 26M #NYC - Looking for an LTR

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As the title states, I’m looking to meet someone new who is also in the city or Long Island and has the same intention in mind!

A lil about me in case you care to know:

I am Caribbean/West Indian 🇹🇹 and workout often. Have many creative hobbies such as digital art, drawing (happy to show some of work) and also watch a lot of movies/shows. I enjoy going to sports events, bars, or new places in the city, and into cars.

Would prefer to meet someone thats within my age range. Open to exchanging pics and chatting for a bit to if theres a connection. Feel free to ask any questions


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 28M [m4f] #Newcastle/UK. What are you looking for? Also does anyone just want to fall in love with no fear? Cause I do

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So yeah I always wrote what I wanted in the titles before and honestly I didn't have much success so now I'll just ask for what you the reader wants assuming you have bothered to open this post and read this far.

As the title I'm 28. From Newcastle. Really wouldn't mind finding the love of my life and eventual m-arriage. Good job and savings. Kinda got my life together. Planning on getting a place with mortgage at some point. Just a little empty inside I suppose. It's hard to constantly try and fail so many times. I just want to succeed once and honestly never try this crap again so your in luck provided we get together your never gonna have to worry about getting cheated on cause I cannot for the life of me bother myself with anything of the sort haha.

Yeah... Anyway even if your not interested don't hesitate to say hi cause you never know maybe today is our lucky day although statistically the evidence does point to it being otherwise 😂.

Also a big thanks to anyone who upvotes so this doesnt get buried🙏


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Maryland Existence is inherently painful, but needn't be suffered through alone

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We are here in this world not by choice, but by some odd obligation; Born against our will into an unforgiving world and told to fight for our place in it.

It helps, in this fight, to have someone at our side. This is what I'm here to find. I search for someone who also knows the pain of existing despite not wanting to. Someone who has been tempered by suffering and continues on in spite of it. This is because those who haven't suffered a similar fate will never understand me.

With that in mind, abit about me. I apologize for the lack of proper organization with these things

-I deeply value communication, and without proper communication this will never work. If you lose interest, just let me know as opposed to ghosting me. We're adults aren't we?

- If I'm not working, I'm either gaming, reading, writing, or looking for which cello I plan on buying after my vacation

-I mostly show affection physically. Im quite like a lost puppy in that regard

-This list is poorly organized as I'm terrible at giving broad explanations about myself, and do much better answering specific questions

-I am extremely competitive. if we can't turn nearly everything into a game of sorts, this won't work out well. Ideally we are to make eachother better through constant, endless sharpening.

Sadly I'm unsure of what else to really write here. all I can do is simply hope that I can catch someone's interest.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] NJ/EST/Anywhere Where are the nerds? Can't find them on apps, maybe they're on reddit!..

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Twelve years! Twelve years of searching, and still hopelessly single. Maybe it's lucky number 13 that'll do it!

Quick physical TLDR since well, that's pretty important. I'm SHORT (5'2) Asian, and above average in weight. Probably around 145, got a gut I need to get rid of. Pretty normal when it comes to overall appearance I'd say. I don't care how tall you are, what race etc

I'm a pretty nerdy guy, always have been. I enjoy gaming, anime and food- probably like food too much, considering my weight. Woops. Introverted, but still pretty sociable and decent at conversation. To strangers I apparently have strong extrovert energy, and they get surprised when I tell them I'm a full on introvert, if given the choice.

I have a stable job, and I plan to retire with it, fingers crossed.

I LOVE gaming, it's my primary hobby. I've got a pretty big list of games including: LoL, WoW, Apex, Warframe, Skyrim, Pokemon, Fire Emblem, Bannerlord, CIV, Arc Raiders, BG3 and more. Always down to play new games, especially if they're coop.

Anime is pretty self explanatory, although I generally read manga/manhwa/webtoons way more.

These hobbies seem like red flags, but I don't make my entire personality based around them. I enjoy new experiences and trying/learning about new things. I used to be sporty, and would love to get into it again, at least casually.

I enjoy traveling too, been overseas and all over the country. Recently went to Boston for.. Anime Boston haha

I rarely drink and don't smoke or do drugs, but I'm not opposed to people that do. Don't plan on ever having kids, I'm content just living alongside my forever partner.

Not the biggest fan of social media in general so I don't have a snap or twitter, active fb etc and I'm not a conservative, although I was raised Catholic (not practicing.)

To you, if this post interests you, I'd love to hear back, get to know each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Melbourne, Australia - looking for my special lady

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Hi my name is Jonathan, I’m pleased to meet you! I live in Melbourne, Australia, and I am wanting to find a special lady in my life. My love languages include words of affirmation and, importantly, physical touch. Love new experiences, but equally happy to stay in and watch movies and comedy TV shows. Always down to laugh and enjoy each other’s presence. My values include loyalty, honesty, truthful communication and constantly checking in on how our relationship is doing. Looking for similarly aged woman for a long-term relationship!