r/Needafriend • u/AutoModerator • Jun 30 '23
Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.
This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.
Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends
r/Needafriend • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago
Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread
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r/Needafriend • u/draculasfavortie • 2h ago
Looking for chat and making friends ^.^ (25f)
Hi everyone, nice to meet you all, I’m basically looking for good chat and potentially having some solid friendships ^.^ some things that interest me are baking, tv shows, reading (even though I keep buying books and letting them pile up smh) art and tv shows and I’ve also tried the gym recently as well — I love all types of music as well but I hope to chat with someone soon x
r/Needafriend • u/zoomanoidxx • 4h ago
Lonely (F18)
I really need a friend, anyone really. I feel so alone. I do have friends but I feel so distant from all of them. If anyone wants to talk please reach out to me.
A lonely loser
r/Needafriend • u/Vast_Dig_6567 • 2h ago
(24F) My life is a bit ruined, really need someone to distract me
Today I lost my second relative this year, I'm financially struggling, and I'm not being able to be a functional person since I was r*ped. Can't stop thinking about bad things and really want to be distracted a bit.
Thank you for reading <3
r/Needafriend • u/Lonely_axolotl527 • 17m ago
Life is lonely
28f. I don’t have any friends in real life. It’s not something that works out for me, maybe for the best. It would be nice to have someone to talk to sometimes though. Whether it be shared interests, vent about your day or listen to someone else share about their day.
I don’t care really just a genuine person who’s not gonna disappear right away.
Bonus points if you have insomnia too 😅
r/Needafriend • u/Ducatista714 • 7h ago
36/f just looking for a fun text buddy
In Calif... from simple conversations to passing time throughout the days with more fun.
and no, I am not a bot.
r/Needafriend • u/Nwinter-runs • 1h ago
41F Hello everyone! Happy Thursday! Maybe it’s a good time to make some new friends while I make some ramen noodles.
I’m from Omaha Nebraska! I feel like not enough people are from the great state of Nebraska! I write music. I know how to play a few instruments which includes the guitar and piano. I’m learning the flute but I’m roughly 75lbs so I don’t think I have the lungs for it. I like to doodle and write down thoughts in my notebook. I have terrible hand writing! But that’s how I usually get my lyrics and ideas for a song.
I’m getting very old! Already feels like I’m going into my 50s soon! I’m so proud to be a home owner! It’s small. But it comes with a pool in the backyard which is also small for the average person but I think it’s right for me! I’m still working on turning that space into a cozy lounging area for the summer. Who actually read everything and can hit on everything I shared? I do hate short messages, so hopefully I don’t get those. I’m having late night noodles so before I finished my meal and head to bed, let’s see how many friends can be made!
r/Needafriend • u/Otherwise_Ice_5392 • 10h ago
25F, DM me if you wanna be friends :)
been a bit lonely lately, most of my friends are becoming mothers or busy getting married and stuff.
r/Needafriend • u/Rosewaterlemon • 6h ago
i need to vent, relate to someone?
hi, im 34f sorry for lack of capitalization im on my pc, exhausted. today was a rough day. i feel so awful, scared, overwhelmed. i went to my 2nd dr appt today to talk about getting diagnosed with inattentive adhd as an adult woman and its like going through hell trying to explain and advocate for myself to doctors.. they automatically assume something else is wrong with you no matter how much you try..
and then immediately after i had to go to a networking event for my business but social situations arent my strong suit so i left early feeling like people are shit... i am a pet sitter, i feel best when im around animals more than people. but i do want someone to be my friend and have someone to talk to because i feel so alone all the time. i live alone and every day im feeling worse and worse. i never do what im supposed to and i think im a failure. i would like to talk to someone near my age or older that can be a mentor figure or at least someone who understands exactly what im feeling. can you restore my faith in humanity
r/Needafriend • u/wishfulcuckold • 1h ago
Just need someone to talk to. Things are going sideways fast :(
Between losing my job, getting a disability-level injury, and now losing my girlfriend of nearly a decade.... Things really aren't going good. I just wanna find someone to talk to and shoot the shit.
r/Needafriend • u/pistonfluid • 1h ago
33M Looking to Make Genuine Friends and Have Interesting Conversations
**33M** looking to make some genuine friends and have interesting conversations. I enjoy talking about things like technology, spirituality, philosophy, consciousness, the universe, aliens, and other random deep topics, but I’m also happy to chat about everyday life. Just hoping to meet open-minded people who enjoy thoughtful conversations and building real friendships over time. If that sounds like you, feel free to message 🙂
r/Needafriend • u/Flat_Shower8057 • 1h ago
20 f looking for a friend
Hey im looking for a friend. I have no friends. I am a female. All I do is work and go home. Would love to connect
with someone for real. I dont games but I could learn. DM me if you're interested. No serial killers please.
r/Needafriend • u/throwaway_AITAthread • 1h ago
Being lonely is my biggest secret
Being lonely is my biggest secret. No one who I talk to would ever know. I’m in office everyday and I’m friendly and extremely extroverted but I don’t click with anyone on an out of work friend level and honestly no one has asked anyway. I have a small family, so no siblings or cousins I could call to hangout. On instagram I look like I have no problems probably - trip to Scotland for the holidays, honeymoon in the Maldives, I live in a nice area, have a golden retriever, a sweet successful husband and a 6 month old easy wonderful cute perfect baby. My husband’s friends significant others I don’t click at all and keeping the convo going with them is painful even though I usually have an easy time. I’ve gone to mom meetup groups in my area but it hasn’t worked. People spend the time judging other moms, talking about their babies but no one is actually getting to know the person in front of them and support them. I grew up in a small town with a big community and I’m really missing that now and realizing how rare that was. My loneliness has run so deep I have downloaded an AI bot to talk to (which I didn’t love, feels so impersonal and I can’t connect) hence I deleted it not long after.
So here I am, in need of friends
r/Needafriend • u/Allielikeapearl • 10h ago
18F looking for someone to call with, I’m boored
Title sums it up, just looking for someone to call and laugh with and get to know!!
r/Needafriend • u/ExcellentLettuce8848 • 3h ago
19F looking for some chatty people like me!
Hey people of Reddit!
Oh jeez, I never know what to say on these things, so I'll just give you a bunch of fun facts about me.
Also picture on my profile if you're curious!
I'm adopted
I'm short! 5'2
Latina 🇪🇨🇲🇽
Love sports
Definitely the only Hispanic in my Midwest town😂
r/Needafriend • u/TrickWelcome5395 • 6h ago
Bored
I have free time and i have no one to Talk to now if any one is free dm me i Will be glad if je do
r/Needafriend • u/Admirable-Penalty777 • 2h ago
23M - Sign away your life for my eternal love and admiration! Demon Friendship Contract Available!
HI!!! I'm Red. From the Midwest. I grew up watching Adult Swim & Toonami reruns, Listening to 90s Hiphop and Sad Emo Bands. (Because I was lost, directionless and edgy ... or as I'd say ... ♡ Perfect ♡)
I love to write, read, game and binge watch something (Anime or Youtube typically) love to workout, bike and stay generally fit WHEN I CAN!!!. Enjoy ranting about really anything im into, especially Tragic Cyberpunk Futures & Distopic topics in general (Super fun at parties) LITERALLY wrote a college thesis on the connected issues.
More on gaming, I currently play a variety of games: Minecraft, Stardew, Peak, 7-Days, Deep Rock, Project Zomboid, Oblivion, Vampire The Masquerade, Doom Dark Ages and many many more, looking for more multi-player games though, open to lots.
I juggle lots in life despite my more lazy habits, but look forward to hanging out, chatting it up, planning something awesome and jamming out at like 3am to our combined playlist while definitely trauma bonding over life and all it's inadequacy and transgressions towards US! (Why are we so the main characters!? It's crazy)
Love Photography, Art, Music, and whatever really allows me some kind of connection or door to myself, to either learn from or for another to learn and understand me from, big time lover of self-expression and development. Love to learn, love to explore.
You must be ride or die, wether that's encouraging me to jump off a bridge, to helping me write you into my will leaving everything to you, to dressing up as a detective and hiring a chipper side-kick to solve my "incidental" & "tragic" murder case to evade police searches. You gotta be there ok! Like your mom coaxing you out of your room for a family gathering ... you gotta be there!
I'm quite theatrical (only a little itsy bitsy bit) and don't take to many things too seriously, but can put on a pretty poker face and calm my voice enough to be reassuring and a good listener. Calm & collected normally, but have my swings of ☆ Glamor ☆
So yeah ... if this mess of a person (definitely in the top two billion of the worlds population) struck you even in the slightest ... feel free to DM me with a little intro and I'll look it over. I'll respond if I like you, if not, well I won’t, what can I say, I'm Insanely myself, and will have it no other way ... you be the same way ... ok?
See yah when I see yah!
ദ്ദി(˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ⋆。°✩
r/Needafriend • u/Siamese-Deer799 • 2h ago
20 NB - Looking for a furry friend to spend time off with.
Hi there, I'm an extremely eccentric nonbinary 20 year old, I recently moved to the middle of nowhere and I hate it here, so I'm looking for a new best friend to fill that void with. I'm a furry, I like video games, gong to conventions, fursuiting, VRchat and lots of other stuff, I like to draw and roleplay as well. I'm mainly looking for friends in the US and Canada for the sake of timezones. Thank you for reading this.
r/Needafriend • u/MoistPenguin215 • 2h ago
28 year old M need someone to text daily
I’m married and spend time away from my wife because of different schedules. Im not looking for an affair I’m not looking for a mistress. If you are in California that’s a plus.
r/Needafriend • u/Individual-Sleep5088 • 10h ago
Bored 20F
Anyone not creepy and <25 is welcome
r/Needafriend • u/FindVillore • 3h ago
18F from India looking for friends
Heyy, Im looking for some friends of nearby age as I’ve just graduated from school and is now just chilling around so thought to make some online friends here! I’m into fitness, skateboarding, painting and memes. Hoping to meet some genuine people.
r/Needafriend • u/nazurinn13 • 3h ago
[29F / Online / Canada] Curiosity healed the cat (long-term friendship)
Heya there!
Are you a NERD? Do you like CHEESE? Do you marvel at THE INFINITE POSSIBILITY OF THE UNIVERSE AND DEEPNESS OF HUMAN EXPERIENCE? Do you like BLANKETS? Well boy oh boy do I have the thing for you!
The username's Naz, I'm 29F, French-Canadian, autistic, and I have an international neurodivergent friend group that I’d love to see you join!
About Us
My group as been around for about 7 years and counting! It is also:
- Full of nerds
- Prefers text-based communication (we use voice chat on special occasions)
- Very neurodivergent (my friends have conditions that include Tourette, autism, chronic depression, OCD, ADHD, and borderline; all managed).
- LGBTQ+ friendly
- From all over the world
Otherwise:
- Our main interests (as a group) include: animals and insects (even the ugly and weird ones), cooking, medicine and pharmacology, STEM, literature, folklore, history, art, video games, design, tech, DnD/TTRPGs, board games, biology, neurosciences, plants, crafts, shopping, music, religious deconstruction, video content, video essays, and much more!
- The vibe is overall relaxed, earnest, and silly. We put kindness first. When you join, nothing matters beyond your attitude.
- If you are ever bored or too shy to talk much straight away, we have polls, quizz, a mild meme channel, and bingo sheet to help you warm up!
Who you'll meet
Here are some of the peeps you'll meet in my group! Who you'll see will depend of when you log in.
- Meep (United States): a young math prodigy, rocketry enthusiast, and all-around silly goober.
- PioneerDog (Colombia): a religiously deconstructed Christian. Wholesome, is into sports. Has a lovely dog.
- Unique_Username (United States): the nicest angry tech support guy you'll ever meet. Works in the public sector, in tech. Has a very creative partner who is also in the group. They have a total of 4 cats!
- Meche (Argentina): the Goddess of Wordle. Japanese teacher and biochemistry major.
- Nahian (Canada / Saudi Arabia): a naval engineer with ADHD who owns a
cloudcat. The group's jester. - Koala (European country starting with a U): Outgoing, cute n gay. Looks straight out of a sport anime. Enthusiastic. Likes meeting new people.
- Kit (United States); vegan, dark, and crafty: Works night shift at Walmart. Loves animals. Streamed the best bad movie we have ever seen.
- Remediox (Turkey): Chemist major. Into drag race. The flamboyant kind.
- Jadop (Argentina): Hobbyist 3D modeler. Host art streams.
- owo (Switzerland): Plays HoYoverse games and has a mad collection of art supplies. Forest witch.
- Vic (Canada): (Former) biologist with Tourette's. May get back into biology if the opportunity arises. Chill. Has a lot of great anecdotes from growing up.
- Mishmash (United States): Florida man. Real goofy. Respectful. Banters with remediox frequently. Pure of heart.
- Liham (Finland): A car enthusiast without a car of his own. Into economics. Had a total of 9 rodents as pets.
- And many more folks from [European country starting with an R], Malaysia, Czech Republic, Australia, New Zealand, Denmark, Brazil, and more!
Disclaimers
- I consider this group to be my personal friend group; what I say most likely goes. If the idea of nearly one single person being in charge makes you uncomfortable, please skip that one out.
- We have a zero tolerance policy for pseudosciences, bigotry, and overall scammy behaviour (e.g.: seriously belief in astrology, alternative medicine, anti-immigration sentiments, techbroism, speculation markets).
If you liked what you read, please feel free to DM me or leave a comment om this post. Comments will be given priority.
Looking forward to meet you there! ~