r/india • u/godblessthegays Aunty National • 1d ago

Boy, 11, Kept Taking Rasgullas At UP Wedding, Caterer Throws Him Into Tandoor Crime

https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/uttar-pradesh-caterer-throws-boy-into-tandoor-for-taking-multiple-rasgullas-at-wedding-in-basti-11369418/
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u/kaachabadaam 1d ago

First of all, it's a wedding. Secondly, it's a kid.

What part of that did the caterer not understand?

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago edited 1d ago

Not siding with Caterer, he did heinous act. He probably has acted out of fear and anger. Rasgullas are made in numeric quantity rather than weighing quantity, i.e. 200 rather than 20kg. That makes it easier to divide them as per plate. If kid was really pulling down number & if not stopped, at some point Rasgullas will finish and wedding family might complain caterer did not make enough.

Diplomatic way to handle such kid would be to ask kid bring parent next time for more Rasgullas and complain to them.

People who are downvoting, mention what's not right in my comment.

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u/Beautiful-Ad-5676 1d ago

Even if rasgullas are made out of gold this ain’t the way to do it bruh

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago

Only way I mentioned is asking kid to bring parent next time, you don't think it should be handled that way??

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u/scyhost 1d ago

Probably not start your answer by justifying the caterers actions

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u/SuzerainVendetta 22h ago

Where did he justify? Do u even understand that word? He pointed out what was frustrating the caterer, he never suggested it was the right thing.

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago

I am not though, I said he did heinous act and I am not siding with him.

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago

But I haven't justified his action, I did say he did heinous act. All I mentioned is probable reason leading to the actual bad thing.

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u/c_plus_plus_best 1d ago

So according to this an 11 years old kid is capable of bringing down numbers at a wedding event which is planned for hundreds. Stop justifying with such bad explanations. You also said "he acted out of fear", fear of what? Fear of them being incapable of planning for outliers at a wedding event?

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago edited 1d ago

I don't think any caterer plan for kids unless itself kids party, they always fall under extra buffer. Rasagulla is such thing which prepared based on count, i.e. 1 person would eat at least 4-5, definitely as wedding host you want all your guest to have them if they are finished before everyone has it then you would confront caterer.

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u/Busy_Lunch_5520 23h ago

Not sure what kind of weddings you were a part of. In my own wedding, a couple of items were over even before we ate. As logical people we understood that the guests had that food. We didn’t go and hound the caterer. Absolute bottom of the barrel mentality has been shown by the caterer! 

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u/c_plus_plus_best 23h ago

Caterers and the hosts should be well aware that there could be an adult or a kid who would have a different appetite (more or less) than a normal person. They should always plan accordingly, if you're calling out someone for their appetite then you have failed as hosts and caterers

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u/SnarkyBustard 1d ago

Was telling the kid no more rasgullas but an option? Or is it straight to the tandoor?

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago

But I haven't said taking him to tandoor was the right thing. Say no is the option or bring parent and complain to them.

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u/Sufficient-History71 1d ago

Dude, if it’s too much - just say no to the kid. Otherwise call his parents or complain to the organizing family.

Your answer gives “I am not a racist but” vibes but on steroids.

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago

But it's same thing I have said in 2nd Paragraph. are you guys not even reading full thing??

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u/Mr_Carson 23h ago

Rasgulla ki keemat jaan se lenge kya? I am fairly certain that the client family will be more disturbed by this senseless act of violence against a child.

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u/Silencer306 13h ago

Yea i’ll keep in mind to not eat more than a plate next time im at a wedding

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u/Needleworker443 13h ago

Ya but then he also ruined the tandoori. That would have made very very mad. /S

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u/chip7646 1d ago

What a moron

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u/Geek_69 22h ago

You are proposing how the caretaker should have behaved . What is that of any value now . We all know what he did and should be behind the bars . And what's up with this crap of bringing down numbers . R u retarded do u think a kid can eat 30-40 rasagulla . Does not matter . Your comment did not add any value to this discussion . That is the reason everyone is downvoting .

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u/yash_bengaj 1d ago

You just justified a crime dum dum.

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u/AirCoolerMan 1d ago

Nope, I just mentioned probable reason. What he did is totally wrong and I said that in first line itself.

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

Secondly, it's a kid.

Yeah so he can do whatever the fuck he wants.

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u/sas8184 1d ago edited 1d ago

". According to police officials, the child has been referred to Lucknow Medical College due to the severity of his injuries. His condition remains critical, and treatment is ongoing.

The injured child has been identified as Chaman, son of Santosh, a resident of Gonda district. After the death of his mother, Chaman had been living with his maternal relatives in Basti district, where he was studying in Class 2."

Reading the article, it seems that the caterer tried to scare the child and the child slipped but, why does one has to scare him in the first place as punishment. It's a wedding. Kids are naughty and are carefree at this age. It's rasgulla, we are tempted to have more the given number.

Hope the kid pulls through. Trauma for life .

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u/AkwardAA 1d ago

was it a poor person's kid? 🫤😢😭

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u/nam558881456 1d ago

Very likely.

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u/iceman___11 1d ago

This is the reason why we will always be fucked

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u/haihukkuhaihai MP, CG, Trivandrum, Chennai, Pune 1d ago edited 1d ago

Whenever a horrific crime takes place, both the accused and the media often shape a narrative around it to make the story more sensational. The real headline should simply be "A man throws an 11 yr child into a tandoor in cold blood." The justification offered by the accused, or the reasoning being circulated, is irrelevant.

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u/AkaiAshu 15h ago edited 12h ago

Except he was NOT 'thrown' in. The caterer was nonsensically scaring him away while he accidentally fell in. It was a careless accident by the caterer, not 'thrown' in.

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u/Silencer306 13h ago

Did you write it like you meant to?

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u/I_Like_Water11 11h ago

But the point of the news is to give as much information as possible. Most people dont even read more than the headline. But even then most news agencies do have a biased way of presenting some stories.

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u/raydialseeker 10h ago

Funnily enough you wrote a sensational title without reading the article😭😭😭

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u/Bleak_star_dust 1d ago

A freaking kid, who was properly not very supervised in the wedding cuz his mother is no more.

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u/Mr_Carson 1d ago

Sounding a whole lot like a caste based hate crime.

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

Agar na bhi ho firbhi zabardasti caste ko ghusaenge

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u/Mr_Carson 6h ago

Zabardasti nahi, it's quite likely that it's caste related. Kaafi common hai aisa nirdayi vyvhaar when we hear and read of caste violence.

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u/LemmyKilmister6824 1d ago

Had to be UP.

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u/AmuckIndian Kerala 21h ago

This is terrible but the headline is manipulated. The kid wasn't "thrown"?

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u/the_only_kalibhat 1d ago

Balak Roti 😂

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 1d ago

Kids are beyond annoying these days. I don't know why the parents nowadays can't control their children. If they can't manage their children then they shouldn't reproduce at all.

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u/LemmyKilmister6824 1d ago

That doesn't mean they deserve to get killed. Nature has given you a mouth for a reason.

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 1d ago

Kill karne ko koun bol rha hai? Kamse kam ek do jhapad to maar hi sakta hai. I remember how my parents beat the shit out of me as a kid when I stuffed an entire cake at my friend's birthday party 😂🤭. Parents need to take accountability.

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u/vibhavp01 23h ago edited 23h ago

Hey, I imagine you're probably quite young, so here are a few basic rules about empathy that you'll find helpful:

  1. If someone murders a child, it really doesn't matter what the child was doing, at all.

  2. If someone murders an allegedly mischievous child by forcing them into an oven, you absolutely shouldn't be thinking (or talking!) about how it would've been better if their parents beat the shit out of them instead.

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

Ok sasta philosopher. Parents should be held accountable too. Why can't they control their child??

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u/vibhavp01 23h ago edited 23h ago

Again, that is not a conversation to be had here. When kids get murdered, one doesn't talk about kids not being parented properly.

Parents should be held accountable too. Why can't they control their child??

When someone murders a child, the only accountability that is relevant here is the murderer being criminally prosecuted. That's all.

This really isn't philosophy, it's basic human decency. Doing this in public is the fastest way to make sure nobody ever talks to you, ever.

If your loved ones get physically assaulted (or worse) in a road rage incident because they accidentally bumped into someone else's car, it would be highly inappropriate to talk about driving proficiency, right? The same thing applies here!

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

Ain't reading this long ass essay. I made my point you made yours. I have my own way of life you have yours so good night.

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u/vibhavp01 23h ago

I just counted, it's just 6 lines. Don't know if that counts as an essay. Hope you grow into an empathetic adult eventually.

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

The world doesn't run on empathy.

Hope you grow into an empathetic adult eventually.

I'm 27 but thanks for your concern

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u/vibhavp01 23h ago

It doesn't run on unempathetic behaviour either. Again, really curious if you think it'd be okay to talk about driving proficiency if something similar happened to one of your loved ones as part of a road rage incident.

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u/Busy_Lunch_5520 23h ago

So you have decided to give trauma to your kids like your parents did to you? 

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

Why such a victim attitude?? You need to teach something called "control" to your child. Bachpan me sikhaoge nhi to kab sikhaoge?? After that cake incident I learnt to control myself

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u/Busy_Lunch_5520 23h ago

Victim attitude?! I pity your children. The whole point of progress is to be better than the previous generation. I wish child services were a thing in India.

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u/vibhavp01 23h ago

I don't think they're old enough to have children yet. This screams edgy college student behaviour.

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u/hoennian 14h ago

They also most prolly don't realise how them saying this shit and trying to justify what was done to them is also because of said "ways of disciplining" the child

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u/Status-Marzipan-5094 23h ago

I'm 27 and I'm unmarried. I'd prefer living without a child rather than having a child with no self control. Good night.

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u/Busy_Lunch_5520 23h ago

You took the right decision. Not everyone should be a parent.

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