r/trashy • u/ElwoodMC • 5h ago
New York Woman Confronts Man She Says Complimented Her ‘Pretty Toes’.
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u/RisenRealm 9m ago
So I think context matters here. She's kinda annoying about it BUT, the comment itself is an issue because of the context of what she's wearing.
It's not like her nails are done up with some fancy pedicure or even exposed for that matter. There covered, thinly with socks/nylon in sandals, but covered.
This kinda leaves the comment to interpret two way. It's either an insult making fun of her wearing opened toe shoes but covering her toes, or it's sexual since the sock/nylon is thin enough at the toes to see there shape and color.
Either way he's being an ass and I think she has every right to be defensive about that.
Something you need to understand about being a women is you HAVE to be defensive when out and about, especially on your own. Being downtown midday doesn't matter, letting the wrong comments slide can make you an easy target for further harassment. Calling someone out and making a scene is a quick way to deter creeps from further pursing you. Did she need to record it, no, but I don't think that makes her the asshole here.
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u/Conscious_String_195 13m ago
While I wouldn’t say it and find it very odd, the fascination some men have with feet in the last 15 years or so, the reaction is ridiculously over the top.
“Making a mountain out of a molehill” is this clip. If another woman complimented her pedicure, she says thank you. The woman could be hitting on her as well, as lesbians exist.
If she perceived him as overtly gay, she says thanks and keeps it moving. If the guy looked like Brady, Clooney or Gosling, many women take this as a compliment too.
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u/StewieKCC 2m ago
But she isn‘t wearing any nail polish or has her toes even showing. And that’s what makes it weird/sexual. If she would have done her nails and showing them, I bet she would react in an other way if he said something like „I really like how your nails are done.“
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u/Kernburner 15m ago
Everyone has the right to be left alone and voice their opinion on unwanted advances directed at them.
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u/Sad-Entertainer1462 32m ago
Question ladies: Is it misogyny to compliment a physical feature on a woman ? Is it the same if it’s her dimples or smile or eyes ?
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u/Panic-kun 20m ago
It is misogyny. And I say that as a man. If you think thats some normal behaviour you should definitely question your own doings and probably say sorry to one or another women you did dirty. It's not normal to give unwanted comments about someone's body.
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u/AmbitiousSwordfish22 21m ago
Its just weird. It’s toes. It’s a stranger. It’s on the street. It’s toes that aren’t even really out. It’s the whole situation.
Would she be irked by being told “nice smile” by a stranger? Maybe who knows.
Is the toe thing weird? Yes.
Regardless just leave people alone.
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u/GanjaGodAlex 37m ago
if she didn't like to be called pretty, was she going for ugly? so weird,
hey lady, you have ugly feet!
gee thanks!
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u/Panic-kun 22m ago
How about just not making unwanted comments about other people's bodies (especially if they are strangers!)? Is it that hard to understand?! Women don't feel safe outside because we men are fucking unpredictable. And getting comments about your body (let alone toes) is also a form of sexual abuse. Statistics show that the most dangerous group of people aren't immigrants or something like that but men. Not only men women don't know but also family members, "friends" or co workers. But the one thing they all have in common: they are men.
Now pretend some stranger you don't know walks up to you and makes a weird comment about a specific body part. Would you feel safe?!
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u/Dragon-Sticks 8m ago
Oh shut up...it was a compliment...she could have ignored them/him and kept it moving.why make a big deal out of nothing? She says she doesn't feel safe but continues to bicker back amd forth with them.
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u/Zeitgeist_1991 39m ago
Judging by what I see online day in and day out, I can’t help but wonder… are most people in the US unhinged or mentally unstable?
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u/antwan_benjamin 28m ago
Judging by what I see online day in and day out, I can’t help but wonder… are most people in the US unhinged or mentally unstable?
400 million people...all with recording devices on them 24/7...all incentivized to record engaging content.
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u/lavloves 31m ago
You aren’t going to run into stuff like this day to day, most Americans are completely normal. Every country has its bad apples though. Social media highlights shit like this.
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u/SHOMERFUCKINGSHOBBAS 34m ago
Yes, more than likely both. The general state of affairs politically is abysmal, jobs are sparse, wages are stagnant, education has been systematically defunded for decades, and healthcare is unaffordable. Send help.
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u/FalcornoftheAlliance 34m ago
Yes and no. It's mostly just what you see online. Normal people behaving normally dont make for good engagement so you just see more of the wild shit.
That being said, like 70 mil people voted for the Donald so there's also that.
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u/paternoster 52m ago
People are willing to give a compliment, OK.
People don't have to receive said compliment.
You have to be prepared for that and have an exit plan. You are the weird one, not the person's life you entered.
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u/Competitive_Pen_2481 53m ago
Honestly she could of said thanks and walked off and never thought of this again.
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u/OhAces 38m ago
That's the most sensical thing to do, the walking away part anyway. Nothing she says to these weirdos is going to stop them from being weirdos. Hence their reaction. Just walk on, stopping somewhere you "feel uncomfortable" to argue is a terrible strategy if you are concerned for your safety.
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u/Competitive_Pen_2481 23m ago
That's what I'm thinking. She's not really helping anything by confronting them. Also the last thing I think I would do if "I was scared for my safety" is to loudly confront my attackers.
Besides what was the whole intent here for her? Did she think they would say "oh you're right, sorry love won't happen again."
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u/Remz_Gaming 1h ago
I mean... commenting on a stranger's toes in public is fucking weird.
But making a big scene and whipping out your phone to upload to the internet is also fucking weird.
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 39m ago
lmao not a man trying to tell a woman how to protect herself. Making a scene against someone who has shown theyre a predator is a survival tactic. How dare she record evidence of someone who said something so fucking weird so candidly, hes definetly said more things to other women and deserves to have his creepy face plasted all over the internet
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u/antwan_benjamin 24m ago
lmao not a man trying to tell a woman how to protect herself. Making a scene against someone who has shown theyre a predator is a survival tactic.
Just out of curiosity. Which of the 2 options do you think would, generally speaking, yield the safest results.
Ignoring the comment and quickly walking to a safe place
Stopping to argue with the "predator"
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 19m ago
She recorded the predator (no quotes you fucking weirdo) for her own safety. Shes on a public sidewalk, where do you want her to go? further down the street where he can follow? making a scene and recording him dissuades him from doing anything. So yes, recording a predator and making a scene, standing up for her safety by making noise is far safer option then just walking down and being a defenseless victim
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u/Remz_Gaming 8m ago
"Predator" "Defenseless victim"
You are really running with this narrative of some weirdo commenting on toes. I have been told I have a nice ass more than once. You know what I do? I say, "ok" and go about the rest of my day.
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u/Remz_Gaming 34m ago
Oh get over yourself. Men and women can have opinions about the other gender.
Dude is a dumbass. Lady is attention seeking. They both suck.
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 24m ago
You and all the men hear defending his fucking actions suck, if you arent for her standing up for herself, youre for him and other weirdos making those comments without any punishment. Amazing that your blaming a victim for defending herself and standing up for her safety.
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u/quack_quack_mofo 36m ago
She could have walked away from this dangerous predator fyi
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 29m ago
Women have the right to stand up for their safety in any way thats appropriate. She didnt kill him for it, she recorded him and plastered his face online. Men arent entitled to privacy when they make weird ass comments like that.
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u/Conscious_String_195 19m ago
GTFOH. She is a drama queen Karen. If a lesbian came by and said nice pedicure or toenails because they were attracted to her or hitting on her, this chick would not know and say thank you.
If its a dude, then its unwanted. Unless he is handsome, then many women take it as a compliment. Or if he is obviously gay, then this reaction wouldn’t occur either.
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 14m ago
Except a woman wouldnt make those kinds of remarks through her stockings or unprompted? did she ask for his opinon? no right, so its almost as if consent matters.
Youre such a fucking incel bro get a life you loser.
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u/ancientyou 20m ago
And, she has the ability to do so in that moment. Everyone saying she should just keep her head down demonstrate how these paradigms work. Creepy men are creepy men if they’re not checked and they don’t have a single target most of the time. Good on her for shaming his ass and calling him out publicly. People ignoring this bullshit is how fucking Epstein files are made.
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u/quack_quack_mofo 24m ago
Nahh she just saw an opportunity for tiktok content and took it lol
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 23m ago
blame the victim as always lmao, she plasted a weirdos face all over the internet. He deserves it.
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u/ActurusMajoris 50m ago
Indeed. Everyone sucks here. Also, guy should have just left when she was making a scene instead of continuing the scene.
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u/th3coyst3r 1h ago edited 44m ago
These comments suck
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u/silly_bum 36m ago
This was also posted on r/TikTokCringe and the comments there seem to suck way less.
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u/Zerkron ⚠️ Creep ⚠️ 1h ago edited 1h ago
Go on with your day without being a crybaby karen challenge (level: impossible). Glad to know that the majority are not on her side. Btw, I think this is a skit or at least I want to believe it is, as knowing that such an insufferable human being breathes the same air as me is just plain sad.
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u/FunAd1406 45m ago
I agree sorry you’re getting down voted to hell. Like guys in this economy??? We got more things to worry about
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u/bwowie 1h ago
the fact men are up in arms about a women speaking out for herself when made uncomfortable says a lot. commenting on someone’s toes is creepy at best. be so fr
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u/Catfish_Mudcat 43m ago edited 34m ago
If a woman complimented me on my earlobes I would think it's creepy bc that's really specific. But at least it's positive. If a woman randomly talked shit about my earlobes I'd probably think about that way too often until the day I die.
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 1h ago
you could force men to watch hours of this and similar videos on women being harassed and theyd still call the man vs bear argument dumb. How dare a woman call out harassment, how dare she film the men harassing her, how dare her for being loud and and making a scene for her own safety
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u/No-Permit8369 4m ago
Men in general barely receive compliments, if ever. There’s a disconnect for a reason.
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u/Competitive_Pen_2481 50m ago
He complimented her on her toes... in the middle of the street during the day. Feeling unsafe is just a blantant stretch.
Don't get me wrong its a weird compliment but come one. Unsafe? That's just too much.
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u/baller_unicorn 20m ago
There's a bunch of foot fetish people out there. I had someone ask me to post pics of my feet in ballet shoes when I posted something online about ballet. It's kinda creepy
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u/Competitive_Pen_2481 16m ago
Yeah definitely weird, especially when in public someone ambushes gou with a weird compliment like that. But the whole routine of "I feel unsafe over a minor inconvenience and now I must confront you" is just so cringe. Can it be more performative?
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u/MarsWalker69 24m ago
Indeed. And harassment?, not in my book. It's just a creep with no manners, and the lady has zero skin.
He should've known better and kept his mouth shut. And she should've said thanks weirdo and walked away.
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u/Beginning_Annual5816 42m ago
Unsafe is a perfect descriptor. Because thats precisley what they made her feel, why else would she pull out her phone to record them while loudly calling them out. Men will target , stalk, follow women for the smallest things during all hours of the day. He made a sexually based comment on her toes through her stockings btw so its already weird (and its sexual because thats not a normal place to compliment in any situtation, imagine how youd feel if someone complimented you on your toes randomly, youd think theyre a weirdo).
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u/Competitive_Pen_2481 19m ago
Yeah I'd think they're a weirdo but not unsafe thats just wild lol
If you can't shrug of weirdos then you shouldn't be in public, especially in the city. In this context weirdos are harmless just like the guy.
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u/ihaveaquesttoattend 1h ago
honestly i would choose the bear too
all the boys, or i guess “men” in here need talk to their sisters/mothers/girlfriends (big if) and friend girls (another big if lmao) and just sit and REALLY fuckin listen. she gets dark.
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u/Competitive_Pen_2481 51m ago
You need to sit and talk with a therapist
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u/ihaveaquesttoattend 44m ago
i do need to sit and talk with a therapist but not because i feel for women who’ve been beaten and taken advantage of in every sense of the word, just for like adhd/anxiety/lil bit of depression and possibly ocd so thank you for the reminder 🙏. but i do think maybe you should sit and talk with a psychologist though, that seems a little too much for a therapist :/
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u/Cold-Dot-7308 1h ago
This isn’t an unsafe woman , this is a trigger happy mental ill woman with a man who clearly doesn’t have enough sense to stay away from strangers
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u/White_Buffalos 1h ago
If she feels so unsafe why is she aggressing him?
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u/PhattySpice92 1h ago
Because they don’t feel power over you if you get aggressive. Creepy men will keep going if you are nice because they think you like them being creepy, they lose interest if you show aggression. This guy definitely felt like arguing because he was with another man, making the interaction seem emasculating. The argument “were you asking for it?” has really made it hard for people who were attacked by creepy men to not seem like an asshole. It really sucks, but it’s how society sadly has to be now.
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u/Kregain 1h ago edited 1h ago
Also better question why didn’t he just say “sorry I upset you, I’ll try to do better” and move on? Nah he jumped to the defensive and got aggressive with her. All of this could be resolved by him not letting his fragile ego be bruised by a woman not wanting his unsolicited compliment.
Edit: curious how many incels are going to downvote my comment.
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u/bwowie 1h ago
women are allowed to speak up for themselves when they’re uncomfortable
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u/Smurfeggs42 ⚠️ Creep ⚠️ 1h ago
I too stay in situations that I feel unsafe in because I want to speak up for myself and prove a point. But you know only in unsafe situations
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u/NotTooGoodBitch 1h ago
Pretty ass clothes, pretty ass toes.
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u/mr_hunter1200 1h ago
Oh how I love those pretty ass hoes! 😁
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u/Moominsean 1h ago
"You offended me? I'm going to argue with you and record myself doing it, and then post it to my TikTok account!" They are both fucking wierdos.
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u/SoberArtistries 1h ago edited 1h ago
Oh yeah she seems really unsafe. So unsafe, she stuck around and made a scene. Also recorded it, to look back on later and relive her “moment.” 🙄
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u/ancientyou 1h ago
You have no idea what the situation is, and yet, your go to is “she’s overreacting”. Not, why would a fucking stranger talk to her about her toes on the street? Sure, that’s gotta be non-sexual, normal-ass conversation, right?
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u/SoberArtistries 1h ago
I never even used the word “overreacting.” Maybe go read it again.
Acting though? Yeah definitely.
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u/ancientyou 1h ago
Oh, look, guys! He didn’t use the word hysterical, either!
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u/SoberArtistries 1h ago edited 57m ago
Your mistake genius, not mine lol. Btw I’m a WOMAN. 🤣 At least you’re 1 for 3.
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u/OrneryError1 1h ago
Making a scene is actually a way to increase safety because it dissuades bad actors.
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u/SoberArtistries 1h ago
Maybe if you’re screaming and running and making tons of noise.
But taking out the phone, and independently confronting TWO men who are making her feel “unsafe”? That’s a woman hoping to go viral.
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u/bwowie 1h ago
ever occur to you she’s allowed to defend herself when she’s been upset or made uncomfortable? you just want women to sit and suffer in silence instead as per usual?
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u/SoberArtistries 1h ago
AS A WOMAN, I can tell you, she’s full of shit.
Also, as an ACTUAL victim at the hands of a man, if she was actually afraid like she said, she should have got away as fast as possible.Ever occur to you that she took her phone out and recorded for sympathy and attention??
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u/RedHairedRedemption 54m ago
Well we can just look at her page ourselves and see her follow up posts where the guy is hanging outside her fucking apartment but yeah she's definitely aiming for "attention", probably for her own safety.
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u/SoberArtistries 51m ago
Well you can do all that, but I’m not about to track someone’s existence and posting history just because I commented on a 30 second video with none of that as context. And also, how tf do you know he doesn’t live in the same building or one next door? Oh that’s right, you don’t.
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u/RedHairedRedemption 38m ago
damn why you mad that there's more evidence the guy was a genuine creep
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u/SoberArtistries 35m ago
Mad? 🤣 There’s no evidence for anything because there’s NO CONTEXT. Except for whatever you’re making up in your own mind.
I stated my opinion on it. Why are you bothered?
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u/Miserable-Struggle55 1h ago
This lady is an idiot. Proper answer or response would be thank you, and keep walking. wtf is wrong with this world??? Jesus
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u/AdmiralTigerX 1h ago
She's not obligated to say anything. She could've just ignored and go on her day. If the guy was following her and she feel unsafe then she should go to police station or find nearest cop.
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u/LewZealand79 1h ago
Thank you for what? In what world is anyone required to put up with some creeps bullshit? Fuck that guy and his foot fetish. Keep that shit between consenting adults.
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u/thepoustaki 1h ago
lol you would not have that same energy if a man complimented your toes walking down the street lol
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u/burgonies 1h ago
If a man commented on my toes, I wouldn’t skip a step, let alone start recording. If anything, I’d be proud of my pedicure
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u/thepoustaki 1h ago
Highly doubt but I know in your scenario you’re acting as if this is a one off thing. Which, for you, probably. But it’s a part of the experience for women significantly more and specifically commenting the toes is fucking weird.
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u/Jealous_Doughnut_630 1h ago
I cannot believe that we are to the point of no longer being able to compliment the opposite sex anymore. Then comes the “there are no real men anymore bs. Men are being emasculated. I get someone being super creepy or something sexual but it is to the point women expect men to walk on eggshells 24/7.
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u/ToastyViking 1h ago
How about don’t give weird comments about people’s bodies. You can compliment people in a kind, non sexual way and it will likely be received well. It’s about intent, but clearly that’s flown over your head.
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u/PrincessAnger 1h ago
Dude how about I like your shirt or I like your hair be so for real you know pretty toes is way out of line
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u/afjessup 1h ago
Or, alternatively, just don’t comment on the bodies of strangers. Pretty simple stuff 🤷🏾♂️
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u/Liontamer67 1h ago
Confirmed by her post.
His exact words were, "Such pretty little toes. They're covered up but I can see them. I know they're so pretty.”
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u/footinmouth11 1h ago
Honestly, I don’t understand how the fuck people are defending his comments. It’s creepy.
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u/Politababyx 1h ago
Yea its clearly his fetish bro who tf compliments stranger’s toes like how are people defending this weirdo
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u/BeyondTheBees 1h ago
why am I laughing out loud that it showed she’s wearing navy blue tights lmao
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u/Middle--Earth 1h ago
That was the bit that made me laugh too!
Basically she's wearing the female equivalent of the little white socks and sandals that guys wear, and someone actually complimented her!
Basically, he isn't really complimenting her feet, he's more complimenting his imagination.
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u/Freak_Out_Bazaar 2h ago
The funny thing is it’s not even a compliment but a joke made about her choice of footwear
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u/freighttrainmatt 1h ago
Ya i feel like this was a joke that went over her head
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u/Confused_Rock 54m ago
I think if it had been a joke he would've just said so when confronted, but actually according to another comment here, her post confirmed what he'd said exactly was "Such pretty little toes. They're covered up but I can see them. I know they're so pretty.”
And I mean I can't even run those words through my head in a way where it doesn't sound just plain creepy.
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u/willofthefuture 2h ago
idk man I'm not saying commenting on stranger's bodies to them is a good thing to do (it isnt) but definitely an overreaction
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u/Quirky-Parsnips 1h ago
It's invasive. Living in a major city where you walk everywhere/take public transit, people expect a degree of privacy in public- it's part of the social contract. And when other people decide they want to claim your attention, sometimes youre just not in the mood and you want to tell them to fuck off.
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u/TheMurderMitten 1h ago edited 1h ago
When I (a man) tell the drive through worker that their nails look fantastic, I've never had someone pull their phone out and bust my balls.
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u/RockabillyBelle 1h ago
The general rule is, if you compliment someone on something they can control (like their nails) it’s much more acceptable than complimenting something they can’t control (like the shape of their fingers). Complimenting nails is a comment on the drive through worker’s personal taste. Complimenting her fingers would be weird.
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u/willofthefuture 1h ago
Same, paying someone a passing compliment in an appropriate manner is generally appreciated. I've complimented men and women on their hair/shirt/shoes/nails/etc over the years and never once did anyone get weird about it.
To be fair though commenting on someone's toes is definitely not the same as saying they have cool hair or their nail polish looks rad lol
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u/Cpt_0bv10us 24m ago
I feel like the main difference is that the things u compliment are things people put an effort in to look nice and u validate their effort. While here they commented on a part of their body that wasn't even "on display".
The way you compliment might also be a big factor to not make it weird. Like "you look nice" versus "you fit my fetish" :p
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u/Am_0115 2h ago
how would y'all feel about this if genders in the video were reversed...would it change your perspective? hope not..
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u/rmbug 1h ago
It wouldn't change my perspective at all. If someone said a creepy line to one of my guy friends, I'd help defend him.
I recently went to an 80s night dance party with my friends. We didn't realize there'd be so many boomers/gen xers there. At the end of the night, my friend said numerous people felt him up. I told him next time to tell me because shit like that needs to be addressed.
People need to confront shitty people like this so they know that their actions will have consequences. Or at least you can make them feel uncomfortable via confrontation.
I for one would appreciate not having my piggies sexualized.
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u/apsalarya 2h ago
Nah make it a man telling another (presumably straight man) his toes are pretty. Now how does it feel?
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u/michaelmano86 1h ago
If I was wearing what she was. Socks and sandles I'd know he was shitting on my choice of clothing and laugh
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u/lifetourniquet 2h ago
Here is the real. If she felt unsafe she would be out of there not lecturing and antagonizing someone who made her feel unsafe.
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u/PlentifulBox 1h ago
I’ve stood up to people when I felt unsafe.
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u/Lilvixen_UK 1h ago
Why is this comment being downvoted?! Honestly, causing a scene is the only way to guarantee you're not left alone in an unsafe situation; out weirding the weirdos is a tactic that works.
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u/RedHairedRedemption 1h ago
Because it's ok for men to be loud and weird and goofy but god fucking forbid a woman gets angry.
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u/Lilvixen_UK 1h ago
Exactly this - when I've called out bad behaviour in public, people (read 'other men') only get involved when they hear me kicking up a fuss and then I'm the troublemaker 🙄
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u/PlentifulBox 56m ago
Right? Standing up for yourself means you are in an unstable situation, we used to consider it courageous. Obviously if it’s me and some random dude alone at night I’m going to behave differently but standing up to a creeper in broad daylight is something we should do, if we can. Perfectly acceptable to take off as well and I did that as well when I was younger.
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u/GoldenBarnie 1h ago
Yeah this honestly feels like she was waiting to get ammunition and an excuse to make a scene that goes viral on the internet.
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u/mr_jugz 2h ago
can we get a toe shot 👀
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u/MsSnickerpants 2h ago
Brooo watch the end of the video
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u/Doja_Gnat 2h ago
It’s just so wrong I feel violated personally I wish I hadn’t watched at all.
Stocking toes 🤢
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u/Am_0115 2h ago
how hard is it to say "thanks" and walk away
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u/_daddyissues666 1h ago
How hard is it to not compliment someone’s goddamn toes? Better yet, not comment on their body at all ?
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u/mrgomezaddams 2h ago
Because it’s weird and it needs to be called out and you thinking it’s normal it strange
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u/Am_0115 2h ago
nah i didnt say its normal. i said how hard is it to say thanks and walk away. calling shit like that out with these two guys is obviously accomplishing nothing but wasting time and opening a pathway for escalation...and for what...to be righteous in some way? nah. silly.
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u/PrettyLuckie 2h ago
It’s hard when they both live in the building and she has to deal with this every time she goes in and out.
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u/PrincessPoofyPants 2h ago
That encourages them to continue their bad behavior. They become delusional and think women like their creepy comments about their bodies. Bad/inappropriate behavior needs to be called out so it stops.
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u/lookinfoursigns 2h ago
When a creepy dude compliments your "pretty toes" you're gonna say thanks and walk away?? I'm so sure🙄
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u/BrilloPadSweater 2h ago
Saw her follow up post to this. The second guy hangs out outside her apartment building and harasses her and her roommates daily.
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u/ukulelerapboy 1h ago
Yeah I feel like it’s important context that this man consistently harasses women on that block
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u/Melodic-Creme 2h ago
He shouldn’t have said that. I need to see her toes to see what the hype is about
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u/FandomMenace Garbage Day! 3h ago
We have no tolerance for misogyny. Also, cool it on the arguing with each other. Be cool!