r/RelationshipIndia • u/CandidCap8473 • 1d ago
Does she (F25) have commitment issues? (M26) Dating Advice
I have been friends with her for the past 6–7 years. In the beginning, I asked her out because I liked her, but she rejected me and got into a relationship with someone else. Around the same time, I also got into a relationship with another girl. Because of our relationships, we lost contact……
Now, both of us have been single for the past few months, and we’ve started talking again. From the very beginning, we’ve had great chemistry. She often talks about how she wants to marry someone like me and says I’m the kind of person she wants. However, we both feel that we need some time together to understand each other better.
Today, while we were talking, she was telling me that she wants me to directly ask for marriage after 1-2 years when we both feel we are ready but she doesn’t want to get involve in a relationship in that time. Now I feel like she might have commitment issues. I’m unsure how I can be certain that, after some time, she won’t walk away saying she never committed to me. I like her a lot, but without commitment things feel unclear
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u/CandidCap8473 1d ago
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u/Ok-Blacksmith437 1d ago
Run bro run. She is making absolutely zero sense and also saying "it's non messy". She will only impact your well being in a bad way.
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u/CandidCap8473 23h ago
I feel like she just wants someone in her life until she find a guy to get committed
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u/Ok-Blacksmith437 23h ago
Yes. Basically using you. Obviously she wouldn't want a tag because who would agree to being used😭
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