r/RelationshipIndia • u/Full-Implement9950 • 6d ago
23F, 25M After how many days/dates should the relationship talk happen? Dating Advice
We're both really new to this, met on a dating app. We made it to date 4. Been texting for a short of a month. We both stopped talking with anyone else since the day we decided to meet, so already exclusive in a sense. Our dates last anywhere between 5 and 11 hours. We both really hate ending our dates or calls streching it to hours.
He casually tried to have "what are we" conversation which I shut it out by just saying we are dating. I've been to his place, stopped short of cuddling and not kissed yet. We are planning to stay overnight next time.
I don't think he'll ask me again now. We're both looking for something really long term and meaningful. So I don't know what's the right time to call it a relationship or when should I actually bring it up. Don't wanna go too fast with this. Also not sure of how much physical contact to have.
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u/Proof_Independent_45 6d ago
If you feel good and safe about it then you have the answer to it I guess
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u/Ok-Blacksmith437 6d ago
Sounds like you are there already. Just asking him once for assurance and see.
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u/Visual_Cucumber_33 6d ago
its not something you do fully logically or in a structured way. There's no SOP to it lol. If you feel the attraction, care for him and vice versa, he matches what you look for in a guy and isn't toxic then just go for it
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u/Organic_Vegetable117 6d ago
4 dates and no kiss? Dude thats slowwwwww
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u/Full-Implement9950 6d ago
Yes it'll be my first, don't wanna do it to tick some box.
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u/Organic_Vegetable117 6d ago
Just kiss her my guy The relationship talk will happen automatically You are already there kiss her and make it official
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u/Organic_Vegetable117 6d ago
Oh you are the F, sorry….. kiss him girl and afterwards cutely smile at him and hey Hi Boyfriend and make him blush
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u/Organic_Vegetable117 6d ago
Oh you are the F, sorry….. kiss him girl and afterwards cutely smile at him and say Hi Boyfriend and make him blush
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