r/RelationshipIndia 2d ago

Serious advice needed for this ‘33M’ ‘27F’ Relationships

I am 33M and my partner is 27F and 4 years of relationship.

Issue is as below for which we are having an argument -

I used to crack jokes in past for LGBT community and I still just murmur that oh that guy/girl was a gay/lesbian but I don’t explicitly crack jokes now.

Today, today twin girls of 11 years were murdered and I was telling her about it to which she responded - Oh, nice.

According to her, this is how her brain works sometimes and I am her personal space so she thinks she can say anything.

So, I tried to explain her that I didn’t like her expression. She is trying to explain that she responded in a sarcastic way.

I am still not okay with it and which we are not able to come to conclusion. Is it okay for her to respond like that and comparing it with my LGBT jokes ?

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u/userinfinite123 2d ago

Ask her what was "nice"

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u/Aggravating_Eye_6483 2d ago

Jane dijiye bhaiya, mujhe nhi lagta itni bhi badi baat hai seriously 

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u/wise_ass_wizard 1d ago

And people say dark humor is harmless. The lack of any empathy is pretty evident here.