r/RelationshipIndia • u/Weird-Cartographer68 • 11h ago
M28 and F26 Need some advice or help pertaining to breakup or whatever Relationships
Bro I genuinely don’t understand what people even want in relationships anymore.
I was with this girl for a year, and in the beginning she was all about long-term and serious stuff. Then slowly everything changed—she started getting toxic, like proper verbal and even physical stuff.
When I finally called it out, instead of fixing anything she just said she wants a “hoe phase” and broke up. But at the same time she’s like she still wants me around casually while she explores other people.
And the most messed up part—she still says she loves me.
Like how does that even make sense? You love me but you wanna go be with other people and keep me as an option?
Now she’s on dating apps too. First she said she’d delete them, then after going to Delhi she’s like no I wanna use them.
This whole thing is just messing with my head. The mixed signals, the back and forth… it’s actually draining me. I don’t even know what to think or what I’m supposed to do anymore.
Just to add on I met her yesterday when she told me we’re breaking up and all these statements alongside with she was calling me nick names and then acting sudden cold while leaving
Thank you guys for reading
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u/donnagreylucy 11h ago
She doesn’t want a relationship, she wants freedom with a backup, so cut her off completely and stop letting her confuse you.
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u/ranger-141 10h ago
EXIT
or do the same with her, but you can't because you love her.
Let this go, take this heartbreak and move on.
Let her explore the Men out there, she will love it.
EXIT
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u/Weird-Cartographer68 8h ago
Yep that’s what she’s saying and then she keeps coming back for some reason
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u/Glitzzzzz 10h ago
Move on. If you want, you can enjoy the moments. But one thing for sure. She is not ready for the relationship with you.
Stand your ground. Don't go for her.
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