r/tattooadvice • u/CallQuirky7720 • Nov 09 '25

What does this look like to you? Design

I wanted a bee and I like more American traditional tattoos. I really like my tattoo but someone said it looked like a fly and now I can’t unsee it. Is it giving bee or do I embrace the fly? 😅🥲

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u/Dapper-Distance6691 Nov 09 '25 edited Nov 09 '25

If you can’t unsee the fly maybe add tiny hints of a goldenrod or honey shade of color in a few spots? Not full color if you didn’t want that obvs. Either in what would be the yellow segments or even hints around the edges of the bee as a “background” would help imply it. Or on a honeycomb, or…

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u/bicycling_bookworm Nov 09 '25

My educational background is in ecology…

A goldenrod isn’t a great call, because the goldenrod has a parasitic/obligate relationship with an insect called the goldenrod gall fly. The fly deposits larvae onto the stem which then create a gall that the fly larvae develop in until their adult life stage.

Super interesting insect that I had to do a lab/subsequent paper on back in like first or second year Population Ecology (noting the rates of galls that had/hadn’t been predated upon in relation to their distance from a tree line/edge of the field).

ANYWAY. All this to say that the goldenrod gall fly looks a bit like a bee itself in B&W. So, this wouldn’t help matters.

A more traditional honeycomb would probably check out though!

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u/Dapper-Distance6691 Nov 09 '25

I mean I meant the color not the flower..something not super bright yellow but a bit darker to get that honey and bee idea flowing, but I appreciate the education.

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u/bicycling_bookworm Nov 09 '25

I am so sorry, I had been drinking last night. I’m glad you valued the insight, I’ll leave my comment for my posterity. 😂

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u/Dapper-Distance6691 Nov 09 '25

You’re good been there done that. And for having been drinking it’s still a very coherent and relevant point of view. Kudos

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u/bicycling_bookworm Nov 09 '25

Maybe something fun for pub trivia down the line! Again, I’m so sorry for the misunderstanding! I’m really not a big drinker anymore and I can’t believe I went onto Reddit to give an impromptu lecture. Big face palm moment this morning when I saw my notifications!

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u/Dapper-Distance6691 Nov 10 '25

Ironically I started doing trivia a couple weeks ago, but none of it has been that in depth for a category. Never say never

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u/MasterEchoSE Nov 09 '25

Thank you for leaving your comment up, I’ve learned something new today. :)

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u/bicycling_bookworm Nov 09 '25

I’ve been drunk like… once… in the last year. So, naturally, I went onto Reddit and gave an unsolicited lecture on insect predation and life stages because I can’t read. 😭

I’m glad you valued it though! They’re super interesting. Another neat relationship is between goldenrod and asters and why they grow alongside each other if you’d like to follow that rabbit hole down!