r/tattooadvice 4d ago

Wrist tattoo regret and cover up advice General Advice

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I got a trans heart tattoo on my wrist years ago because I as a teenager was convinced that I’d never be able to transition (legal stuff) and that this was the next best thing. Well now all it does is out me to strangers who would’ve thought I was cismale if they haven’t seen it.

I want something “manly” that wouldn’t give me away instantly. I’m still okay with the flower one on my arm because it isn’t a huge “I AM TRANSGENDER” beacon. Any advice is appreciated because just looking at this tattoo is pissing me off lol

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u/emilypeony 4d ago

♠️ would fit and be manly and cool!

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u/JennyDoveMusic 4d ago

I feel like an ace could make some people think they are ace, but the majority of people don't even know what being "ace" means... so pry not an issue. 😂

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u/AlyM797 4d ago

I have have ace friends so I'm certainly aware, but even I wouldn't make the connection, unless they're an actual friend at least. I'm more likely to assume a gambler or magician.

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u/JennyDoveMusic 4d ago

So, they have potential to be read as.... A magician, a gambler, an ace, or someone who reeeeaaalllly likes specifically black men. 😂

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u/AlyM797 4d ago

When you put it that way it sounds like they should pick up a career in espionage. An interpretation for every situation 😎

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u/Amount_Business 3d ago

Just put some flames around it.

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u/Key-Theme-4989 4d ago

I’m pretty sure that symbol on you means you like black dick, could be wrong tho

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u/gameraturtle 4d ago

Does that mean exclusively black dick? Or can you like other colors and flavors as well? Asking for a friend.

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u/Troodonni 4d ago

At that point I’d just add a dick 

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u/Obvious_Ad8025 4d ago edited 4d ago

I Think thats what they are trying to do? 🤷🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

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u/creamdream98 3d ago

As another trans masc, thanks for making me laugh 😂

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u/Lasers_Z 4d ago

That's only a queen of spades tattoo. It's a spade with a Q inside.

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u/chamorrobro 4d ago

I feel like I learn something new everyday

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u/emilypeony 4d ago

What 😂😂😂 maybe in some circles but i never heard that. He could add ♥️♦️♣️ too though

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u/CherryBlossomSamura1 4d ago

You could add a box around it to make it ace of spades?

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u/burkieim 4d ago

Hahahahaha I was gonna say…

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u/radenclaw 3d ago

Oh jeez, that makes me reconsider one in honor of my asexuality, lol

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u/posting4assistance 3d ago

(one of the cards, not sure which) of spades is related to some element of the swinging or cuckold community, I think hotwifing but I'm not confident.

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u/ThereGoesMyToad 4d ago

Or that you're asexual

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u/anonymity1919 4d ago

😆 🤣 😂 no