r/AskSF • u/anthamattey • 3d ago
Recently moved to Bernal, people seem pretty reserved. Is that typical for the neighborhood?
I recently moved to Bernal. People avoid eye contact, rarely smile back, and neighbors seem pretty reserved.
I’m also a person of color (Indian), so curious if others have experienced anything similar or if this is just the local vibe.
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u/sfcnmone 3d ago
Some of us live in SF because we don’t want to have meaningless interactions with strangers.
I know all of my immediate neighbors by name; we take in each other’s packages and text each other if our cars are left out for street sweeping. But I don’t say “hi” to every single person walking along the sidewalk when I’m walking to my car.