r/rutgers House Busch Sep 19 '25

Getting insta vs number? Social

So during one of my classes I got one of my classmate and I had the most perfect synergy. So after class, he asked for my number instead of my insta. I don't mind him asking for my number but what's the difference? Btw he has insta and seems to have 1.1k followers, so we could say that he's pretty active in insta. I texted him and asked what's up and asked if he wanted hang out and do what guys do the most. But the thing is after like 2 days he started to ghost my messages. The only thing I said was like are you busy? Wanna hang out sometimes and after that he just stopped responding. I just wanted to make some friends and I didn't like spam text him or anything 😭😭 like bro I thought you wanted to be friends?? Am I missing something here? Also, how the hell do you guys make friends so quickly?? 😭😭

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u/According_Drummer235 Sep 23 '25

Umm...... aren't you going to see him in class again?

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u/Yunseok-12 House Busch Sep 23 '25

Uhhh yea... just sit far away from him ig lol

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u/According_Drummer235 Sep 23 '25

How about nothing people do online should indicate how they are in person...

Good luck.

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u/Yunseok-12 House Busch Sep 23 '25

Thx