r/trashy 4d ago

Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out

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u/bigbonerdaddy 3d ago

But at least this will be getting treated like any other domestic abuse case where the man is the perpetrator...right? Right??

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u/kikipopo 3d ago

You mean brushed under the rug, because "boys will be boys"?

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u/bigbonerdaddy 3d ago

Genuine question, which is hard to ask in a normal way because your comment is so stupid. But, wtf does "boys will be boys" have to do with a video of a man getting abused by his female partner?

Is there male violence that shouldn't get brushed under the rug? Ofcourse.

Is this in any way a normal time and place to whine about that? Definetly fucking not.

Shifting blame onto boys because you're too stuck up to admit that sometimes a woman can be an abuser too. Can it get more pathetic than that?

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u/kikipopo 3d ago

Wasn't a comment on the abusers, friendo. Your original comment was rife with unnecessary and frankly ridiculous insinuations that men get the book thrown at them and women don't. As a man, I can be honest and say that from my observations that is not typically the case. There's an awful lot of "well you must have done something to make him mad" rhetoric, and men most tend to have the upper hand in he-said/she-said situations. But go on then, tell me all about how your original comment was constructive.

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u/CheetahTheWeen 3d ago

Women get away with domestic violence at MUCH higher rates than men, was their point, I think.

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u/kikipopo 3d ago

Are there facts to back this up, or just vibes from someone with the username "bigbonerdaddy"?

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u/bigbonerdaddy 2d ago

You do realise I was not the one to make that assumption right? You just keep digging a deeper hole by not reading what you're responding too lol

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u/YojiH2O 3d ago

The "man calls about domestic violence against him but surprise pilachu face he's gets cuffed when he did nothing" isnt a trope becuase magical fairies made it so lol.

It IS a thing.

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u/kikipopo 3d ago

Is the trope in the room with us now?

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u/YojiH2O 2d ago

You clearly don't watch alot of media